Open letter to the Bedford Public Library

• Updated

In June 2022, a group of people protested a local library’s display of LGBTQ+ related books and an unidentified patron checked out all of the books, assumed to be an act of protest to prevent their circulation. The display was then taken down. WSET reported twice on the matter and the Bedford Public Library System issued a statement. Below is my open letter sent to the library director and the Bedford Public Library Board.


Dear Bedford Public Library System,

I spent my childhood and teenage years in Forest, Virginia and frequented the Forest Public Library. While I live in Stockholm, Sverige with my husband now, I am saddened to hear about a culture war being fought at an institution for knowledge that meant much to me growing up.

I appreciate the library acknowledging LGBTQ+ Pride Month. It would have meant the world to me to have seen such a display 20 years ago.

The existence of queer people is not disputable. We exist. Our community has a long history—a fight for equality under the law and for tolerance, acceptance, and celebration within a society that values the diversity of our species. The history is still being written, as evidenced by an ongoing fight to label my existence as an opinion to be held or as potentially harmful to a child.

People who argue children are too young to learn about LGBTQ+ people reduce us to genitalia and sexual acts. Queerness is a complex part of someone’s identity from the time they are born. Perhaps a good book could help people overcome such ignorance and examine their beliefs.

I encourage the library to consider Karl Popper’s paradox of tolerance: in order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must retain the right to be intolerant of intolerance. As a knowledge institution, you must not only defy attempts to erase queer people from existence, you must promote the knowledge fundamental to a tolerant society.

I have purchased and donated 9 LGBTQ+ books in hardback and library binding when available. I hope they find their way to a queer kid trying to understand themself or a family member trying to understand their queer kid.

Kindest regards in hope for a better future,
Jeremiah Lee


Books I donated to the Forest Public Library:

  • Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan
  • Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender
  • Man o' War by Cory McCarthy
  • Queer Ducks (and Other Animals) by Eliot Schrefer
  • Queerstory: An Infographic History of the Fight for LGBTQ+ Rights by Rebecca Strickson & Linda Riley
  • Rise to the Sun by Leah Johnson
  • Small Town Sinners by Melissa Walker
  • What Are Your Words? by Katherine Locke
  • Will Grayson, Will Grayson by John Green & David Levithan

2024 update

I was curious how many times the books I donated had been checked out in the last 2 years. The online catalog showed this information, so I compiled the data.

2024-06-28 update
Book Checkouts
Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan30
Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender24
Man o' War by Cory McCarthy1
Queer Ducks (and Other Animals) by Eliot Schrefer6
Queerstory: An Infographic History of the Fight for LGBTQ+ Rights by Rebecca Strickson & Linda Riley6
Rise to the Sun by Leah Johnson5
What Are Your Words? by Katherine Locke26
Will Grayson, Will Grayson by John Green & David Levithan33
Total checkouts 125

2024 donations

My friend Beth sent me this Esquire article How “Right” and “Wrong” Ways to Be Queer Are Changing Fiction filled with insightful analysis and a must-read list. I intended to donate a few more books to my childhood library.

In March, I donated Math in Drag by Kyne Santos from John Hopkins University Press. I contacted the library to ask why it had not been added to the library’s catalog. The donation was misplaced during a staff transition. Since the book did not have a professional review (e.g. Kirkus Reviews), the library’s collection development policy requires a library staff member to review the item and meet with the collection development committee to make a decision. I was told it would be awhile before it could be reviewed because the library is in the middle of its summer reading program.

My local contacts confirmed to me that the library did not have any display for Pride Month this year. A culture war seems to have won a battle for one of the few safe spaces I had as a kid—for now.